The Nigeria Institute of Public Relations (which I am active member) Lagos state chapter just held its annual general meetings/first Public Relations Golden Eagle awards. A week-long event was full of fun, learning and networking opportunities. The public lecture on Thursday 22nd July was well attended and the guest speakers as well as discussants did justice to the topic of the day. My major attention was on the award day itself (which was Friday 23rd July). This is because I was a nominee for two categories of the awards (one: best contributions to PR education in Nigeria and Best new talents in PR). One of these I actually sent entry for while someone sent entry on my behalf for the second one.
As we know, Lagos is the hub of best professional practice in Nigeria and the contest was keen. My initial fear was the constitution of the panel of judges. Because I did not initially know the composition of the panel. But when we got to the venue and I saw the jury was led by Peter Ogudoro I became relaxed and promised myself to accept the verdict of the jury as truth. If I did not know anything about Mr. Peter Ogudoro at least I am aware of his level of professionalism, integrity and to his credit many of the third generation practitioner in Nigeria (which I am part) caught our niche studying under him.
While I do not want to miss the award, I had the premonition during the week of not getting any of the awards. This thought scared me to the marrow but I did ask myself what is the worst thing that can happen. I went over my last post on Algore(below) and told myself I could still go ahead with life after all I have gained some international recognitions as a professional.
When the award time really came and the head of the jury was asked to make a remark of the yardsticks they used for the awardees I noticed some of the things I did not do right and here is the lesson I learnt which I believe could be useful to someone of the nominees who did not get any award or someone out there that may be musing over a loss of something they cherished.
Always try: never come to a situation where you accept that you are not as good as others or your brand did not merit a higher level. The chief jury said they expected many more entries than what they got. He did say most people in the agencies were those that submitted entries while individuals shy away from submitting entry. If your brand is so sure it is making meaningful progress it will be great not to fear competition. Competition helps you shape up.
Package it well: one other lesson I learnt was the fact that one should learn how to package his/her thoughts, ideas/brands well. What is worth doing is worth doing well. Go the extra mile in brand packaging. Distinguish your entry into any market. I knew that even the entry I submitted was done with little effort just to show up in the radar. So when I saw my name as a nominee in Best PR education in Nigeria with two other noted brands I knew I did not give much attention to the way these noted brands would have packaged their entries. Learn to go extra miles as you may not know who is watching.
Do not Accept temporary setbacks: When you did not get what you want, be a successful failure. Share up the winner. Realize that it may be your turn tomorrow, Go out there and congratulate those who win and learn something from the fall. A Nigerian adage says ‘when a child falls, he looks at the front but when an adult fall he looks backward at the point of his fall( to find out the cause and learn a lesson).
Even though my friend and wife were present-hoping to cheer me up for the award- I stood up, congratulated the winners in my categories, took pictures with them and shared the picture on my facebook album. I went ahead to send other awardees congratulatory text messages.
A guy came to me to ask how I felt and he was shocked when I said there may be something I did not do right. Today I drove to the office of the head of the jury to learn how to improve on myself and entry next year. He did decline to talk based on his position but did commend my entry. That is how to fail successfully. Interestingly just because I was a nominee, I got a request for proposal on social media marketing from an establishment today. Gold from the ashes you say. Let me hear from you. Use the comment section.
At a recent World social media mob flash held in Lagos Nigeria where we have the gathering of social media enthusiasts, professionals and those who intend to use social media, the audience was generally talking about best use of social media in Nigeria by corporate organizations in our environment.
We all love growth. But many do not plan for it. Do no ever forget the law that says every object remains at a standstill until a force is applied. Many successful brands today will not be in the radar again in a couple of years just because they have forgotten how they get here. There is nothing bad in celebrating success. The only snag is that each level of success brings additional responsibility. Each new success should supply additional adrenalin that will keep the brand to remain afloat.
Yesterday one of the major print media in Nigeria sought my opinion on the value of social media to business. This discussion is published today in the paper’s business page. I am happy that social media is beginning to show up in the radar of our business operations. But as we know the bandwagon effect of many businesses rushing to embrace the platform will affect Returns on investment they can all derive. Social media is helping business owners shape perception. Like one writer says ‘Perception is all there is. There is no reality only perceived reality’ Therefore we must learn to manage perception in social media through a stand out initiative.

Yesterday, I was speaking at an annual conference of a youth advocacy group I had the privilege of pioneering about a decade and half years ago. I actually led the group for three years before I committed the assignment to some other individuals who could steer its wheel of progress. This group today (which was predominantly undergraduates then) now has doctorate degree holder, computer scientists among other professionals. I was billed to speak to this group on the topic: Developing marketable skill. The time spent was a great one. When I got to a part of the presentation that requires I ask them the question “how many of them are on social networking sites like Facebook, LinkedIn and Twitter as well as how to develop right skill in appropriating online social networking sites to their own advantage”, I was shocked to note that many of them say there is no time and it could be a distraction to life.
In a recent professional roundtable with few colleagues, we were discussing issue that relates to emotional engagement with brands that can likely have meaningful impacts on brand’s success. Some were of the opinion technology plays a great role in brand’s objective achievement. While we all agreed on this, the point of argument arose when some felt that technology should be given preference over social science in social marketing. I and some other felt that technology may be great but social interaction follows social behavioral pattern than high profile technology when it comes to social marketing. The reason is not far fetched, when the instrument of interaction becomes complicated through the use of high profile technology, the purpose of conversation is often defeated.
Relationship is important to brand survival. Brand needs to build affinity with others to become truly successful. Humans are not created in isolation. This is a signal that shows that we all need others to move ahead. A person is four people away from a desired contact still holds true.